Holiday careless time
(Our favourite destination this holiday-water playground)
Every day I entertain them for nearly half of the day (playgrounds, walking, visiting friends, all sorts of activities) rest time I expect them to take care of themselves ( i didn't count my little prince ;) )
And then they starts 'Mum what to do?', ' What can I do?', ' I'm bored.'Etc.
I've noticed that the more I suggest, the more ideas they demand and less creative they are.
They won't stop till I lost my control or till I say go and watch television.
So, I've stop giving them any ideas.
I only encourage them to find their own plan for entertainment.
What I say exactly?
- I'm curious what you will figure?
- What you fill like to do?
- Hard to decide ?
Is it working? Mostly, yes. Some days are harder, but only some ;) a lot depends on how they are filling, what kind of whether is and the way I speak ( gentle works, a bit irritated not at all ).
Only sometimes I am giving them advice, when? When I want them to do something ;) but, this is whole other story ;)
How you guys dealing with questions-'What to do mum?' Or 'I'm bored.'